Sunday, October 7, 2012

a tale of two churches

Today I went to Rock City Church for the second time, but this time I went with James. We had agreed that he'd go to my service in the afternoon and then we'd go to his mass at night. Today's message at Rock City was titled "What about the many Christians who look nothing like your Christ?" The pastor shared his own story about when he was in 9th grade and brought a friend with him to church. For the sake of this story, let's call the friend Luke. Luke wasn't very popular and didn't have a lot of other friends so the pastor felt sorry for him which is why he invited him out to church. At the end of service one Sunday, Luke went up to the pastor and told him he had something to tell him, but said if he told him it would change their friendship. The pastor told Luke that he could tell him what he needed to tell him and that it wouldn't change anything. Then, Luke told him he was gay and the pastor said, "That changes everything."

According to the sermon, there are three main moments when it becomes easy for a Christian to become a barrier for those in pursuit of Christ: 1) When we forget who we were before Christ 2) When we reason that it's our job to change the world and 3) When the central focus of our lives is anything but Christ. All of these points stood out to me, but the second point resonated with me the most. When Christians feel that it's our responsibility to change the world, we justify violence/hatred against others. We think it's in our power to change the heart of others when the reality is that only God has the power to do that.

The pastor ended the sermon by emphasizing the importance of loving everyone regardless of their identities, backgrounds, experiences, etc. to be honest, hearing this was incredibly refreshing. I know that Christians don't have the best reputations. I mean, we carry signs that say people are going to hell because of their sexual orientation and other "sinful identities." I believe that the most important message in the bible is for us to love everyone. Unfortunately that message tends to get lost in the Christian community so I sincerely appreciated the pastor's message.

The service was held in one of the movie theaters at the Lennox so James and I grabbed lunch at Johnny Rockets and then watched Looper. I’d like to point out that it started raining and the weather channel app on my phone did not say anything about rain. Stupid Ohio weather! Anyway, my brain still hurts a little bit after watching Looper, but not as much as it did after inception. Looper was AMAZING! I don't want to give anything away, but there's so much more to the movie than the previews. I also might be a bit biased because I love any movie with Joseph Gordon-Levitt :D after the movie we went to the Buck-I-Serv Winter kick off. I met the students who will be going on my trip, did the typical name learning icebreakers (did I mention that despite being in grad school for student affairs, I don't like icebreakers), watched a short film about Buck-I-Serv, and created a Buck-I-Serv contract for our group. Although I still don't really know what's going on with this trip, I know it's going to be great and I’m super excited! James and I had an hour to kill before the 9pm mass so we went to Kroger and ended up buying more than just pita bread, which was the only thing we actually needed to get.

The mass was at the Newman Center which just so happens to be right across the street from Taylor which was very convenient. Also, I’d just like to point out that I hadn't been to a Catholic mass since I was in elementary school and even then, I think it was like an informal Friday service. Luckily, James gave me the rundown and guided me through the service. It was different from what I'm used to. It was more "traditional," there were memorized responses/gestures that I didn't know, and the songs that were sung were not as upbeat. They were very minor things, but I was slightly self-conscious that people would notice that I wasn't saying any of the responses or doing any of the gestures. I really enjoyed the message because the priest talked about how God created man and woman in Genesis and they were complimentary. Therefore, they are equal. Just because god created man first doesn't mean that man has power over woman. In all of my years of going to church, no one has ever talked about that story in terms of the equality between men and women and I loved hearing it that way. So Catholic churches have communion every Sunday, which was fine because I had taken communion before multiple times. However, there were responses/gestures that went along with this too. James tried to explain it to me a few minutes before communion started and I started to get a little bit of anxiety so I decided to just stay in my seat, which was definitely the smart thing to do.

I don't think I've ever gone to two services in one day, especially two services at two different churches. Although the structures of the services were different, I loved the messages I received from both churches, and at the end of the day, the sermons that are preached are what matter the most to me.

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